Tuesday, May 20, 2008

love hurts

ok for this post just ignore my style of writing. this writing should be a crap or junk or rubbish or noise as whatever you might want to put it. i don't use CAPS and i don't use proper way of writing. yes i know, i never write a proper one with proper english too. i'm fine with that.

i'm going to write about LOVE. its big, yes i know. if you find this word through google, you will find this from wikipedia :

Love represents a range of human emotions and experiences related to the senses of affection and sexual attraction.[1] The word love can refer to a variety of different feelings, states, and attitudes, ranging from generic pleasure to intense interpersonal attraction. This diversity of meanings, combined with the complexity of the feelings involved, makes love unusually difficult to consistently define, even compared to other emotional states.

As an abstract concept love usually refers to a strong, ineffable feeling towards for another person. Even this limited conception of love, however, encompasses a wealth of different feelings, from the passionate desire and intimacy of romantic love to the nonsexual. Love in its various forms acts as a major facilitator of interpersonal relationships and, owing to its central psychological importance, is one of the most common themes in the creative arts.


enough? well ok, that is what encyclopedia says. love can be love between mother and son, father and son, sister and brother or even you and stranger. you never know. you might falling in love with someone you think a perfect one for you. but maybe he/she isn't. i guess everybody knows what is love and experience this feeling before. some even say "love is in the air". how true? if its in the air, you can easily grab them, ops no no not that easy. you can't even see love in the air. some might say "you don't see, but you feel". ok you feel the air, but how do you know its love? how can you believe in love when you don't even see, touch or feel it.

ever listen to a song call "love hurts"? yes sang by nazareth. its a cool song? no it is not... not at all. its a sad song... and of course its not cool at all. its hurt when you seeking too much and end up you got nothing... and to live in loneliness forever would never be the best either. remember there is an english quote "i wanna grow old with you" can't remember it was taken from what movie... it was an old movie for sure. do you believe in that? sigh. for me everything is so vague. i'm getting older and what other crap i can do better than dreaming?

life is full of ups and downs... yes. life is like a wheel.. yes. what else? ah ok i guess everyone is giving out their own words... many i suppose. some of you might getting down and down and down. not getting tired of it? some of us might have given up to seek for love... or worse believe that love never exist. how true? is true love really exist? ok i post an article about it before. but i doubt many will go through that lovely moment. dream on... its hard hard hard.

when your love does not work as you planned or dreamed... does it hurt? yes.. you can scream, you can cry, you can lock yourself in your room. as long as you feel relief. cry cry cry... whole night. come on! accept the fact. he/she doesn't love you!!!

so to those who is heartbroken... live life to the fullest!!! (eh who told me this???). life goes on... love exist? hell no!


note : this is not about me... its about my friend... poor friend :(


14 comments:

  1. love...???? Dunno how to explain bout love...just let it flow naturally.

    Perhaps LOVE, is a word that we cannot define correctly... but love is a feeling we can always show positively.....yer kot

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  2. ohhh tentang kawan... ingat tentang faisal tadi.. hihihi...

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  3. live life to the fullest...
    i love this quote...yeahaaa

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  4. Anonymous4:36 PM

    At first I thought you are hurt by love. Then only I realize that you are trying to explain what love is. Haha. Good post anyway.

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  5. cybernetic - yeah, its hard to define love. its about showing. agree with you. sometimes it hurts badly.

    ej - hehe :P

    wahidah - but its hard to achieve ;)

    sheng loong - its complicated as its title. don't you agree?

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  6. ' LOVE " is used commonly in relationship. Yes, there are various type of love.
    Love between parent and kid.
    Love between human and animal.
    Big love- love all human beings and all living things is the love that we should aim for.
    Have a peaceful life, faisal.
    From: coolingstar9

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  7. I'm sorry for your friend. Love can sometimes be very painful.

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  8. ingat kan faisal yang merana kerna cinta...

    takper..takper...

    oh..kiter pun kalau cakap english ikut english phua chu kang..tak salah kan..janji orang faham

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  9. coolingstar - thanks coolingstar. i guess this post is full of emotion. hope things will be fine soon.

    tammy - yeah tammy. its like a gamble. either you are brave enough to take the risk or not.

    mummy - er kawan saya :) ya sedihkan tambah lagi dengar lagu mcm tu

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  10. Hmmm...are you sure it's about your fren? :P

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  11. erk, that is tricky question :P

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  12. Anonymous12:14 AM

    What I can say is “it’s a good post” At 1st I thought u’re the one who were hurt by love.
    For me, love is very abstract, cant be show in a tangible figure. Anyway, if u get what u’re dreamming of, it will satisfy you.. But if you don’t, there’s no word could describe how it hurts..

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  13. sakura - lol, no not you sakura ;) i won't do that without permission.

    anonymous - yes. you got the point right. even though the wound will heal, the scar still there. is this why life is so wonderful?

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