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Thursday, August 06, 2009

everything happen for a reason

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Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant
to be there...to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure
out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these
people may be but you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment
that they will affect your life in some profound way.

And sometimes things happen to you at the time that may seem horrible,
painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without
overcoming those obstacles you would never realize your potential,
strength, will power or heart.

Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means
of luck. Illness, love, lost moments of true greatness and sheer
stupidity all occur to test limits of your soul.

Without these small tests, life would be like a smoothly paved, straight, flat road to nowhere
safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.

The people you meet affect your life. The successes and downfalls that you
experience can create whom you are, and the bad experiences can be
learned from. In fact they are probably the most poignant and important ones.


If someone hurts you, betrays you or breaks your heart, forgive them because
they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of
being cautious to whom you open your heart.


If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you,
but also because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to
little things. Make every day count. Appreciate everything that you possibly
can, for you may never experience it again.

Talk to people whom you have never talked to before, and actually listen.
Let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high.
Hold you head up because you have every right to.

Tell yourself you are a great individual and believe in yourself, for if you
don't believe in yourself, no one else will believe in you.
Create you own life and then go out and live it.

25 comments:

  1. guess that i found my soulmate, even i didnt know him. ever! but, then i dont think that he is into me. so, whats the reason im waiting for him? and still, i m waiting with patient here. didnt know is it what they called love or sacrifice?

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  2. This post reminds me of my old post.. :P

    "I believe that everything happens for a reason. People change so that you can learn to let go. Things go wrong so that you can appreciate them when they're right. You believe less so you eventually learn to trust no one but yourself. And sometimes good things fall apart so better things can fall together." - Marilyn Monroe

    :)

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  3. balqissy - love and sacrifice are two different things but they are related to each other.

    listen to your heart.

    if your heart tells you that it's worth waiting, then wait. in my case, yes, it was worth waiting and my sacrifice at last bring the best moment in my life. the best love i've ever gotten!

    witch - i always think a blonde is a dumb. but she is different :)

    right now, i don't want people to change and i don't want thing to turn wrong. i just want everything as perfect as now... :)

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  4. Someone's in love :) I knew I loved you before I met you ....la la la...oops copied from savage, plus minors can la...:)

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  5. Very nice words and pretty good advice too. I wonder how much we can actually use in real life...

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  6. yep, i always think that blonds are dumb. But we can't deny how rich Paris Hilton had became only using her dumbness... :p

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  7. baby - yes, i'm in love. LOL.

    terra - actually we can use it always. just that we have to fight the negative thoughts strictly. when we have a lot of positive thought, everything will be as nice as we imagined :)

    witch - she is lucky coz all the wealth inherited from the family. if she is a brainy, she won't sell her body for cheap porns :P

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  8. one word for you. 'PERFECTIONIST' :P

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  9. how come a guy can be so0o ego? he wanna know wether i love him or waiting for him or not, but for himself, he doesnt wanna confess bout his feeling. did he is into me? or not?

    any ideas?

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  10. If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you,
    but also because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to
    little things. Make every day count. Appreciate everything that you possibly
    can, for you may never experience it again.

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    ada ker yg nak love2 kat cik po'ah nih...?

    hu hu hu..dah la nama kat gelemer.....







    ikhlas,
    marpo'ah manis...

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  11. zm - you are not the first one saying this to me. but i try to ignore it (is it a compliment? sometimes i'm getting confuse :P) as i think perfectionist is the one that people don't like to be friend with because it will bring uncomfortable to both party :P

    balqissy - a guy? ego? well, you should know one thing, guy is always with his egoism which means he will always brag about his pride arrogantly.

    sometimes they can be dumb too for thinking that they are much precious than pearl!

    you must confront him and ask him questions that have been running in your mind for days, or maybe weeks. preferable if you can meet and ask him by looking into his eyes for the truth :)

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  12. yanie - takmau pakai po'ah tu. geli tekak :P

    cik limah, love is in the air :D

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  13. "sometimes they can be dumb too for thinking that they are much precious than pearl! " -Agreed!

    erm, btw, i think i just had enough. so, just wait for him to react. or maybe we are not meant to each other. =(

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  14. i have been confused you. take that as a compliment. :P

    relationship sure has twists and turns. Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus. one advice. 'UNDERSTANDABLE' :P

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  15. I truly agree with you bro. Everything happened for a reason. And yes...we should love someone unconditionally regardless of the person's background etc. :D

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  16. balqissy - you have to make the decision. you cannot wait like this forever.

    first, what you need to do is to meet him or talk to him on the phone. discuss about it. solve it.

    zm - why should people from Mars travel so far to find people from Venus? :)

    tekkaus - yes. i like your comment this time (doesn't mean that i didn't like previous ones :P). agree with you, indeed.

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  17. One day, god take the sunlight away from us. We become angry and upset with HIS decision... After a while, HE give us the wonderful rainbow... Then, we astonishing and start to be thankful to HIM for giving us the precious moment...

    God make all of the things and tests with reason... always thanks to HIM and always have faith in HIM...

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  18. zam - yes. everything is already written by HIM. life has ups and downs. if life is just about happiness, it won't be good :)

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  19. Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant
    to be there...to serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure
    out who you are or who you want to become. You never know who these
    people may be but you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment
    that they will affect your life in some profound way.

    yup...betul sgt2...
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    If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you,
    but also because they are teaching you to love and open your heart and eyes to little things.

    i've tried..but failed...hati xleh dipaksa..ececehh.. ;D

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  20. teja - you've tried? the sentence is not about trying at all :P

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  21. why? it is only a methaphor from Roman classical (which i didn't care of it :P)

    give and take.

    to care and to be cared.

    appreciate, accept, forgive and not forget. :P

    listen and patient.

    understand his/her 'colour'.

    sentiasa buat terbaik untuk pasangan anda so love will surely grow everyday. :P

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  22. Wow, this is good. I love it! :)

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  23. yeah agree with him..life is full of up and downs...

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  24. zm - i love this part: "sentiasa buat terbaik untuk pasangan anda so love will surely grow everyday"

    it's happening to me now :D

    cahaya - thanks :)

    iesha - glad that you like it :)

    wahidah
    - exactly! :D

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