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Tuesday, March 16, 2010

to be a better man.

Before I take my nap, my mind is thinking about something. About how human reacts to thing that had happened and will happen. Well, we can’t predict future of course, but then we tend to regret about things that already happen. Weird thing is, we don’t think about the consequences except after we do it and bad thing happens.

Common questions will be playing in our mind such as:

  • Why am I so stupid?
  • Why I did that?
  • Why I didn’t think first before do it?

These are common questions that will pop out in our mind after we did something bad without thinking properly, and regret later.

As a human, we cannot be the best but we can always try to be better each day. Human is not robot which can do thing correctly, always. Even though we have brain to be used, we also have heart to be followed.

What we can do after something bad happen is, we must leave it behind but stick it to our mind; so that it won’t happen again in the future.

“Fool me once, shame on you; fool me twice, shame on me”

35 comments:

  1. i oways think to be a better person at least better from each day i've been through..but then when i keep thinking bout it, makes me conclude that i'm super duper big loser person...damn on me~ =(

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  2. hana, we have to always be positive in order to achieve our goal -- better person.

    kick all the negative thought in your mind and always be happy.

    happiness is the medicine to all diseases :)

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  3. i've been +ve once but when people stepping up my head, it change me a lot...
    kemurungan la bro..hahah penyakit tak bley blah...

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  4. hana, life is short hana... kalau asyik murung tak sempat happy dah KO. macam mana tu? :)

    enjoy life!

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  5. every mistake made,
    every lesson learned,
    hoping to be wiser,
    as we get older...

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  6. insomnia, wisdom is the greatest thing we can gain when we're older :)

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  7. the stupid things? thats make life. sometimes, we enjoy the stupidity, isnt it? ;)

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  8. balqissy, unless it has no harm :P

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  9. It's always hard to be a better man. :) But it is worth being a better man. ;D

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  10. tekkaus, let's be a better man... er, what about butter man? LOL.

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  11. Mine is "why didn't I think first before speaking those words"?...hehe. Sometimes, I react faster than I think.

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  12. mei teng, hehe, usually people will say... "when a man gets angry, he close his eyes and open his mouth"

    so, you wanna use this quote too? :D

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  13. i did something terrible today. and now tgh menyesal gila2 punya.

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  14. cahaya, what's wrong?

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  15. Cahaya marah mak dia..hehe

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  16. I like this post and yes... Kalau da banyak sangat buat mistakes yang sama, memang terasa sangat bodoh la ye!

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  17. doll, eh mcm marah seseorang je :P

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  18. Tak marah but relieved *alhamdulillah*

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  19. doll, glad that you're ok now :)

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  20. Never been better.
    I am me once more =)

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  21. doll, and you were not you before? :P

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  22. Not all the time. Especially when I'm with you-know-who. I'm more relax now, no more tense and live in suspicious... Free! *yayy* not living with time bomb for sure. no more lies to my face, no more fighting, no more drama, no more physically & mentally abuse, no more exchanging harsh words, cursing and threatening...

    I hope this time for real. Insya-Allah.

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  23. doll, hmm it's hard to tell when we meet as you guys look as happy as a joker. only smile on the face and never frown.

    but only you and god knows.

    i'll pray for you ok? :)

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  24. Well, what can I say - I'm the great pretender. But truthfully, I can't hide it all the time. Hence, hibernating at home and painting is the best escape or an outlet to ease the pain. And, takkan nak tunjuk kat org semua hal rumahtangga aite?

    Bila kita da pilih seseorag tu, kita kena terima segala buruk baik dia tetapi kalau da sampai tahap yang membodohkan diri sendiri, kena pujak kepala... Sendiri mau ingat la :[

    Thanks Faisal =)

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  25. doll, i really thought everything back to normal the last time met you. i didn't expect this at all. but thing happens, and life goes on.

    datang sini may kan? :)

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  26. Well Dear...
    Normal - is something I hardly get from her. If it's 'normal', usually something BIG is coming. Something unexpected... Entah la. Takpe la, semua da berakhir pun... I'm supposed to leave for Adelaide this Friday but not going now. Benda da jadi macam ni. But my Daddykins is coming tomorrow. I told him already and even told him I don't want to be alone. Alhamdulillah, he understand and he agreed to accompany me *alhamdulillah*

    Best kalau dia ada sini, ada je teman nak jalan-jalan, nak borak, nak sakat, ketawa je nanti, riuh rumah ni. Plus I have another friend who's currently besides me. Tak la rasa sunyi sangat. She understand where I'm coming from.

    And yes, May I'm coming. With or without Cahaya but hopefully she can make it this time around. Oh ya, bila tarikh yang sesuai kitorang datamg ya? Please advise. So, she can plan her day off already and I can block those date too. Eeiii, tak sabar nak jumpa you all. And karaoke is a must on this trip tau!

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  27. haha sure thing! :) walaupun suara i tak sedap :P

    may i akan confirm soon ok? sebab may kalau dapat tiket murah memang jadi vacation either bangkok or bali. so, depend on dia le nak book flight :P

    eh, may pun i akan ke melaka. nanti i tanya umi bila date yang betul2.

    june lak nak gi candat sotong di terengganu! yay!

    takyah la fikir sgt fai. benda dah jadi. life goes on kan? :)

    laughter is the best medicine.

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  28. Oryte darling *mwah*
    Btw, siapa kata suara you tak sedap? *chait*

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  29. Dia dengki tu.
    Hehehehe...

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  30. haha terima kasih di atas sokongan anda :P

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  31. sama sama kaseh *hugs*

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  32. It is my first time to visit and I think I like everything I am reading here...

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  33. kulasa - thank you and i hope you will visit this blog again :)

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