I have learned many things regarding friendship. I’d like to share some scenarios with you and yes, it is still about friendship.
Scenario A
The person who I think my best friend but then always busy with work and lover. Call me when needed and meet me when the lover is not around. I mean, most of the time. It was not like this before. Time can change everything. Now, I believe.
Scenario B
The person who I knew since I was in college and always feel insecure. Insecure about someday I will be kidnapped by other friends and abandon him/her. Took wrong option by badmouthing about what I’m doing and my relationship with another friend which force me to make a decision –- stay away.
Scenario C
The person who I knew pretty long time but he/she is emotional imbalance. Used to be worse but getting better. Feels insecure about friends around will get new friend and he/she will lose them. Make small problems bigger and explode (throw tantrum) to everybody.
Scenario D
The person who looks strict and serious which make me think he/she is firm. But I am wrong. He/she is emotional imbalance and could react without rational. Too bad friendship for him/her is like an airport you just come and go with emotion.
Scenario E
The person who is lack of confidence. Always create stories about relationship. Dream about things that hardly can be achieved. I know, if you want to dream, dream big. But please do not be too impossible.
Scenario F
The person always take advantage on me. Gives me empty promises and selfish. You got me once but not twice.
Scenario G
The person is very understanding and easy going. Always happy and do tolerate most of the time. Not selfish and very helpful. I guess this is the one everyone is seeking? All the best.
… and the list goes on.
What do you think about friendship? Share with me your opinion.
i think u are a good frenz..:) enough kot...:P
ReplyDeletebtw,faisal friendship is like sambal belacan...even it hot the more u eat it the more u know bout it..hahahah..n after than u can decide etiher u want to continue eating eat or not..hahaha..
merapu di pagi hari...kesan bgn terlebih awal...peace..XOXO..
naseb la faisal byk typing error..baru kul 5 pg kan..:P
ReplyDeletewai - haha. sambal belacan sudahnya. tapi bau busuk how?
ReplyDeletewai - bangun buat apa?
ReplyDeleteGood and limited... that's the key I guess.
ReplyDeleteThere are some who can be fun, but can't be trusted in a tricky situation.
There are others who might bore you to death, but would never think twice about jumping into a raging river to rescue you.
terra - haha a perfect one is hard to find. but nearly perfect is fine for me... :-)
ReplyDeletetoo demanding?
Friendship is like this unbreakable chain of bond that you have with someone. Its so strong till no matter what road your friend choose, regardless good nor bad, you will be there for them no matter what.
ReplyDeleteTrue friendship is like a pearl, so hard to find in that open blue sea but once you found it, its one of your most valuable possession.
Friendship is never complete nor perfect. There will be at times when it'll go up and down. They come and go but believe me. Have faith in it because you'll be surprise how great the power of friendship is.
Friendship, once you found that person that you can rely on. that person that will be there for you through thick and thin. Dont let go. Hold on tight and never give up.
"SAHABAT" & "KAWAN" adalah berbeza,
ReplyDelete~SAHABAT~
sebuah persahabatan itu akn kekal sampai bila2...akn sentiasa bersama susah & senang...X kira apa jua situasi yg sedang berlaku....Seorang sahabat itu dpt terima baik & buruk sahabat kita....Jika ada perselisihan faham,dpt dibincang bersama dan ia akn kembali seperti biasa.....
~KAWAN~
ia hanya akn hadir dikala kita senang,tapi dikala kita berada dlm kesedihan & kesusahan,dia x muncul bersama kita...Tapi bila kita dlm kegembiraan,dia akn muncul kembali....
X semua org IKHLAS bersahabat @ berkawan dgn kita...Ada jugak yg bersahabat @ berkawan dgn kita atas sbb2 utk kepentingan diri sendiri & ada juga yg bersahabat @ berkawan hanyalah utk mengambil kesempatan atas kemewahan yg org itu ada....
Apa yg penting dlm sebuah persahabatan adalah "KEIKHLASAN"...itu adalah penting....Persahabatan x bole dibeli dgn wang ringgit....Dan seorang SAHABAT itu tidak akn mengHINA sahabatnya pada org lain + seorang sahabat itu tidak akn mengAIBkan sahabatnya sendiri pada org lain...Senang ckp,depan ckp lain,tapi belakang,MASYA-ALLAH.....
Apa yg penting skg nie,
Sahabat x perlu reramai,
dpt seorang dua pun dah mencukupi sbb kalau dah ramai2 tue mcm2 hal yg bole berlaku....
IKHLASLAH BILA BERSAHABAT DGN SESEORANG ITU & MENJATUHKAN SAHABAT KITA.....
:)
(mak ai panjang giler plak komen i ari nie)
all of the about...all the pahit and manis
ReplyDeletenot matter what or who r u...for me...awak adalah sorang kawan yg sgt2 best...n sorry klu saya pernah wat awak t'singgung ngan saya ya...i'm sorry tau...as i'm not perfect....
ReplyDeletefaisal..rase you lupe taruk senario H kot... kawan y tinggal kawan..cer citer cer citer....
ReplyDeleteaiman - you must be the lucky one :-)
ReplyDeletei used to have a best friend but now i'm not sure.
time can change many things in life.
cw - selisih faham sekali sekala ok. tapi kalau kerap sangat, bosan pun ada :-)
ReplyDeletesmall kucing - i'm getting more pahit than manis compared than my younger time :-)
ReplyDeletenorjan - thanks Jan. human being is never perfect. so do i. my apologize for any mistakes that i have said and done.
ReplyDeletelasayee - betul juga kan. lupa pula nak buat scenario H.
ReplyDeletedi mana buku-buku rujukan di dalam bahasa melayu, geng-geng tertentu saja dapat.
geng-geng lain tu, dapat apa? tapi 1 kumpulan. kononnya.
ada note ke apa-apa ke. diam seribu bahasa.
dari time tahun pertama lagi kan. ada jawapan mikro ke apa ke. diam je.
so, kenapa perlu stay di kumpulan yang tak dianggap kumpulan pun? dan hanya berseronok selepas exam?
last year final exam. semua berkumpul di mana? rumah geng perempuan? saya boleh join ke? tak. so, saya tak kisah.
tapi this year lain. saya seronok ada kumpulan yang sanggup ajak saya study sama-sama.
notes dan tips dikongsi bersama. itu baru 1 kumpulan. ye tak?
:-)
so, jelas kot sekarang scenario H?
all the best ye :-)
yes,
ReplyDeletetapi apapun manusia x pernah lari dari melakukan kesilapan,
apapun bersahabatla selagi mampu...
i tau i seorang sahabat yg baik,
dah sthn i kenal u...
:)
sama2..nanti raya nanti minta maaf lagi tau + kena bg duit raya...:D bila ntah nk tea skali ni...??
ReplyDeletecw - amboi puji diri sendiri ke? he he he.
ReplyDeletejan - haha tea? jom bila?
ReplyDeleteFriend is like a good bra,hard to find,supportive,comfortable & always close to our heart! =)
ReplyDeleteeh silap,
ReplyDeletei nak ckp U,
tertaip i plak,
opssssss...
hahahahahahahaha...:)
hehehe...klu tea kat old town ok x??ehehehe tu bila2 pun ok ja...:D sb just nearby ja....
ReplyDeletebau busuk tu maknanya a good frenz akan terima baik buruk kawannya n dlm masa yg sama akan berani tegur kwn die if kawan die slh..leh tak gitu?? :p
ReplyDeletebgn awal sbb baru sedar tk solat isyak lagi..hahaha..kantoi di situ..:)
I think friendship is like a cup and a tea. :D We must tolerate each other.
ReplyDeletenemo - haha i heard this before. kinda agree!
ReplyDeletecw - haha apa la...
ReplyDeletejan - esok lunch nak? i exam 9-10 :-)
ReplyDeletewai - haha takde ke komen-komen pedas? :-P
ReplyDeletei expect something yang pedas.
tekkaus - how i wish :-)
ReplyDeletesumthing yg pedas eik..
ReplyDeleteactually dlm dunia ne rsnya kwn mkn kwn yg lg byk...kdg2 hati2 mcm mn pun..terkena gak..
so kesimpulannya...wai teringin char kuey tiaw longkang bole dak..:P
wai - haha mai la.
ReplyDeletenice interpretation on friendship Faisal. True friend is the one who can accept you just the way you are.
ReplyDeleteok...esok lunch skali...apa2 sms or call me ya:-)
ReplyDeletenak buat lagu mana,
ReplyDeletemasa reply komen u nie,
dok mamai lagi...
apapun hidup nie tanpa sahabat @ kawan x best jugak,
x kan nak hidup sorang2 kan,
baik hidup dlm hutan,
lalalalalala:)
dr sam - some of them can accept the way we are but just we can't accept the way they are for some reasons.
ReplyDeletejan - sorry tadi fb awak takde reply. lunch di Cargas Cafe je. ayam goreng and sotong goreng di situ superb!
ReplyDeletecw - best juga tu hidup dalam hutan. bagi i tak perlu lah ada ramai kawan kalau ianya menyakitkan hati dan otak.
ReplyDeletefaisal,
ReplyDeletemmg btul,
tapi mcm i berbusiness nie,
kena ada ramai kawan,
sbb ada jugak kwn2 yg tolong kwn,
dlm masa yg sama ada jugak kawan yg menghancurkan reputasi kwnnya sendiri...
so kenalah pandai memilih kwn...
sbb tue,
adakalanya kita nie kena ada perasaan sombong n memilih skit dlm berkawan nie,
sbb takut akn jadi mcm nie lah...
cw - tu bukan kawan. tapi network. dalam business kita kena ada network, tak perlu kawan :-)
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Apa erti kawan ?
Jika tidak suka menolong .
Apa erti kawan ?
Jika asyik bermasam muka .
Apa erti kawan ?
Jika kejujurannya dipertikaikan .
Apa erti kawan ?
Jika tiada rasa sayang .
Apa erti kawan ?
Jika tiada belas kasihan .
Apa erti kawan ?
Jika kebaikan tidak dinilai .
Apa erti kawan ?
Jika diri tiada teman ....
Kawan yang mulia ,
Kawan yang sebenar,
Kawan yang abadi..
ILMU
ialah kawan yang sejati !
afzainizam - sungguh mendalam ayat tuan hamba :-)
ReplyDeletemmglah network,
ReplyDeletetapi ada jugak kwn2 i yg bantu promote butik i tau,
dan ada jugak kwn2 i yg amik khidmat dr i,
hurm....
so berkawan itu adalah perluu selain network:)
eemm...sorry arini saya agak sibuk tu yg x buka fb langsung tu..bila sms tu baru tau awak kat cargas cafe...x apa mbe next time ya...tp awak yg blanja boleh??
ReplyDeletefren come n go..bestfren itu wujud? impossible!
ReplyDeletecw - ramai juga kawan you yang bertukar jadi enemy tak?
ReplyDeletenoorjan - ok je walaupun gaji you lagi besar... huhu
ReplyDeleteayunda - haha i like your comment!
ReplyDeletepandai2 ja kan..mana ada besar pun...biasa2 ja...
ReplyDeletefaisal,
ReplyDeleteyup,
yg tue i akui,
tapi i x amik port pun coz ramai lagi kwn yg ada dgn i,
Lagi ramai enemy lagi membuatkan i lebey kuat utk lalui khidupan ini
dan i x KESAH pun kalau hilang kwn,
sbb i ada seorang sahabat DUNIA & AKHIRAT iaitu mama i sendiri....
dialah segalanya dlm hidup i...
(u tau kan mcm mana hubungan kasih syg i ngn mama)
:)
truth, it's hard to see genuine people these days. hmm.
ReplyDeletejan - oh tak besar?
ReplyDeletecw - yep, after all family yang akan bersama sampai bila-bila.
ReplyDeletecahaya - yeah. lets kick the bad ones! haha.
ReplyDeleteyes,
ReplyDeletefamily adalah segalanya dlm hidup kita,
tanpa mereka kita juga tidak akn berada didunia ini,
so hargai dulu keluarga,
barulah persahabatan....
:)
cw - setuju!
ReplyDeletelets dance,
ReplyDeletelagu Jlo ngn Pitbull....
"on the floor"
hahahahahaha:)
cw - haha you jadi JLO?
ReplyDeletei x layak u,
ReplyDeletehuhuhuhuhu
cw - haha... kenapa pulak. nak 1000 daya.
ReplyDeleteyes i know,
ReplyDeletetapi u tau apa akn berlaku bkn,
penghinaan yg i akn dpt,
huhuhu
cw - kesah ke?
ReplyDeletei x kesah,
ReplyDeleteok saja kalau nak berangan jadi JLO,
tapi versi "montel"
wakakakakaka
cw - haha.. ok juga tu!
ReplyDeletefaisal,
ReplyDeleteagree???
cw - entah nak agree ke tak. haha.
ReplyDeleteamboi amboi amboi,
ReplyDeletex tau nak agree @ tidak,
chait...
hahahaha
cw - haha rasa patut agree ka?
ReplyDeletentahlah u,
ReplyDeletehihihihi,
apa yg penting enjoy....
cw - part ni i sangat setuju!
ReplyDeletesalam...singgah jap...stuju bbnor ngan cik wanie..crik la sahabat...tak yah ramai2...1,2 org ckupla...rmai pun tak gna time dalam susah...pakat diam...crik sahabat yang ikhlas dan setia tu penting..sahabat berhati mulia terima kelebihan dan kekurangan sahabatnya,,,yang penting menjaga rahsia dan keaiban sahabatnya...biasanya "kawan" ramai tak pe...kawan biasa nya Hai2 n then bye2...biasanye la..
ReplyDeleteaziekz - betul. susah zaman sekarang ni nak cari kawan yang betul-betul kawan. maksud kawan tu tak macam zaman mak ayah kita. zaman sekarang terlalu "general" sampai kita sendiri tak tahu yang mana satu kawan.
ReplyDeletelife is too short,
ReplyDeletedon't make it shoter,
u ingat ayat tue,
ayat yg pernah u bg pada i suatu ketika dulu,
smapai skg i masih pegang okeh....
utk dijadikan kekuatan if i ada masalah,
hihi
cw - aik macam pernah dengar je! haha.
ReplyDeleteye ye... ingat lagi.
:-)
mestilah u pernah dgr sbb u yg kasi kat i suatu ketika dulu,
ReplyDeletewah mcm dah lama plak kan,
hihihi
cw - lama ke? haha.
ReplyDeletefaisal,
ReplyDeletex silap i last year,
bulan brapa i x ingat,
masa tue i tgh down,
u bg kata2 tue kat i melalui sms + i masih simpan sms itew okeh
Cw - haha thanks sudi simpan sampai sekarang. Cepat check sms tu bila date! Haha
ReplyDeletefaisal,
ReplyDeleteu are most welcome,
yg baik kita jadikan kekuatan,
yg x baik kita jadikan iktibar,
hihihihi:)
Cw - aik tak menjawab soalan pun hehe
ReplyDeletesoalan mana?
ReplyDeleteHaha bila sms tu I sent le :-p
ReplyDelete