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Monday, May 02, 2011

Move on.

3.26am.

After talking at dining table eating bihun sup with family, I kept thinking about something related to the conversation.

Now, in my bed holding my iPhone; I want to write something that ran in my mind when I was at the dining table.

Yes, as you can see as the post title: Move on.

I got some friends who have problem to move on. In fact, I faced this problem too before. Whether you like it or not, you must do it when the time comes.

What I'm talking about is of course about relationship.

Most people keep grudge against the one they used to love or maybe still loving. That is the root of problem.

When they have grudge, they are tend to take revenge against the one they love or worse to the new lover too.

Why?

If you love someone, you should not have grudge against him/her. You should feel happy for him/her as he/she found the happiness.

You should believe in fate that it's written that way and there must be a reason why God has decided that way. Think positive.

Move on.

Yes, that's the key word.

Open your heart to accept someone new and for sure you will find some who truly love you.

Be friend if it gives no harm and don't be his/her enemy if friendship is not a good idea.

Love is in the air. So, be a good human being and have some faith. Do remember: What you do, you will get it back in return.

Peace!

Sent from iPhone

28 comments:

  1. to say the words 'MOVE ON' is easy..but to implement that..it such a big problem for so many of us..

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  2. I agree with you. Do it the right way. Be the bigger person in life. Let him/her go if you truely love them. Gotta be strong like it or not.

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  3. ye i setuju,
    tapi kan,
    adakalanya mmg senang utk ckp,
    tapi terlalu sukar utk lakukan,
    apapun CINTA ITU INDAH....

    :)

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  4. Axim - Agree with you bro. But there is no choice. You only have to option: move on or be sad/regret.

    I'd say the first one is the best choice. It's hard to do but you'll glad that you do it and you will smile when you think about it in the future.

    I like the quote you always use in your blog: It happens for a reason :-)

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  5. Aiman - Yes, agree bro. It sounds like you just passed this kind of scenario few days ago :-)

    We gotta be strong no matter what.

    The decision has been made whether it's you or him/her. You just have to be strong.

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  6. Cw - Haha kata-kata seseorang yang dilamun cinta. Macam Aiman cakap, you gotta be strong. Nak tak nak, benda tu akan berlaku juga.

    Tapi zaman sekarang pelik. Orang sanggup berdendam dan buat personal attack against orang yang disayangi mahupun pernah disayangi. Sedangkan sekarang ni pun dia dah ada kekasih. Manusia...

    Dah baca kisah budak yang bunuh diri sebab break up dan buat countdown dalam Facebook?

    Sampai sekarang ayah dia sedih.

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  7. agreed..every single thing always happen for a reason..Buar lah Tuhan yang menentukan..move on and try ur best to focus onto something else..that does worth it..

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  8. Axim - Yes bro. What you said is highly recommended and the best way to do. Focus on something else is another brilliant idea. Travelling like you always do is something good and peaceful too. You learn something new when you are on the process if recovering :-)

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  9. dah,
    i ada baca,
    sgt2 menyayat hati,
    kerana CINTA dia sanggup bunuh diri,
    hurm....

    Zaman skg nie kan...

    apapun CINTA & PERKAHWINAN itu ada,
    cuma cepat atau lambat saja....

    :)

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  10. Cw - yes. For me family comes first. I pun tak faham macam mana orang boleh put lover at the first place and neglect family. Kesian family dia kan.

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  11. faisal,

    yup,
    apapun family mmg no 1,
    sbb family lebey tau diri kita dr org lain,
    eventho kita dah berkawin kelak,
    jgn lah diabaikan family kita,
    sbb hubungan fammily tue sampai akhirat tau,
    hurm....

    yup,
    kerana CINTA mereka sanggup lakukan apa saja,
    sehingga sampai satu tahap BUNUH DIRI tue,
    Masya-ALLAH....

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  12. Gf budak tu confirm tak lama lagi ada bf baru. Haiz budak zaman sekarang tak fikir panjang kan.

    Setuju family segalanya :-)

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  13. Ya Peace...hope can do it

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  14. Small Kucing - Hope can do it?? :-)

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  16. afzainizam - betul tu. nak tak nak, kena terima hakikat :-)

    ni ada pula yang simpan dendam :-)

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  17. la,
    i kan mmg suka senyum,
    u x tau lagi ka,
    hahahahahaha:)

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  18. Tengok gambar pun tahu haha

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  19. ha tau x per:)
    hihihihi

    senyum,
    x perlu kata apa2:)

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  20. i like to mve it move it..hehehe..

    yes dlm life ne mmg kite kena move on..tk leh dok takuk tu je..eventho sumthing bad happen try to take it possitively..yeah bukan sng nk buat ckp bole la kan..tp kena la try kan..tk cuba mana nak tahu tk gitu abg faisal..lalalala..:P

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  21. Cw - kena kata juga haha

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  22. Wai - I tak ada masalah nak move on haha. Sebab tu I selalu cakap life is short, do not make it shorter :-)

    Ramai remaja sekarang suka bunuh diri :-(

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  23. remaja skrang pk pendek..tu pentingnya pegangan agama..

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  24. wai - betul. agama saja yang boleh guide kita kembali ke pemikiran yang waras :-)

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  25. mcm mana senyum tue nak berkata-kata,
    cuba habaq mai sat,
    hihihi

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  26. haha ada kata-kata kalau tengok betul-betul.

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